Nothing hurts more than certainties - Proverb
- Staying positive and engaging in healthy communication are the keys to becoming more loving.
- Stamp out being critical and pay more attention to good things and the people surrounding you.
- Sharing Your Love with the World: Serve Others
- Giving your time and energy in service to a just cause creates a better world, provides personal satisfaction and helps you be more loving.
- Reflect on your personal mistakes: Reflect on your personal mistakes daily, reach out again to see how it can be made right and how you can avoid repeating the same mistake next time.
- Surround yourself with people who are loving: Find friends who support you and minimize the time you spend with negative, spiteful individuals.
- Practice forgiveness: If someone disrespects you or dislikes you, be prepared to forgive them. Don't hold onto your failures, let them go.
- Write down positive experiences: Write down the best things that happened during the day in a journal.
Don't expect anything in return: If you do something nice to your partner or someone else in the family or your friends and relatives, never hold it against them by expecting them to do something nice for you in return.
Be more helpful for yourself and grow as a person: unhappiness with self is common with everyone and it will become double the difficulty in loving others. Identify your own values and enjoy what you are doing.
Demonstrate you care: Give your relationship your best shot: Holding back positive, loving emotions prevents us from loving as much as we could and should.
Stay attentive to your partners wants and needs: Ask your partner and family members each day after work or school how they're feeling and how their day has been.
Do little things your partner likes: Ask your partner what kinds of behavior they consider loving.
Use pet names with your loved ones:
Communicate in a loving way: Avoid accusatory language eg: Instead of "You never listen to me" use statements like "I wish we could find a way to talk more honestly with each other"
Focus on whom you talk, do not neglect them when you speak or hear them
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